Question 1

What is AFTRHRS?

Accepted Answer

AFTRHRS is an adults-only social discovery and dating platform for gay, bi, queer and other men — for friendships, dates, chemistry or something casual.

Question 2

Who can join?

Accepted Answer

Adults aged 18 and over who complete identity verification and agree to our Terms and Community Guidelines.

Question 3

Is AFTRHRS free?

Accepted Answer

Yes. The Free plan is ad-free and includes your profile, nearby discovery, chat and essential privacy controls.

Question 4

How much is Premium?

Accepted Answer

Premium is intended to cost R69 per month in South Africa. Subscriptions are managed in the app.

Question 5

Do Premium features I get in the beta stay free?

Accepted Answer

No. Premium entitlements granted during the beta are subject to terms and conditions and revert to the Free plan at launch.

Question 6

How do I try the iPhone app?

Accepted Answer

The iPhone app is in public beta testing on TestFlight — the invite link is on our Get AFTRHRS page. The Android app is still in development and testing.

Question 7

Do I need to install an app?

Accepted Answer

No. AFTRHRS works in a modern browser. You can also install it as a web app on compatible devices.

Question 8

Can I use AFTRHRS in my browser?

Accepted Answer

Yes — the web is the primary way to use AFTRHRS today.

Question 9

How does identity verification work?

Accepted Answer

After creating your account you complete identity verification and submit it for review. Our team approves it before you can start discovering.

Question 10

Can I hide my online status?

Accepted Answer

Yes, you can hide your online status from your privacy settings.

Question 11

How does location sharing work?

Accepted Answer

Nearby discovery uses your approximate location. You control whether your distance is visible and can pause discovery at any time.

Question 12

Can I control who messages me?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Message-request controls let you decide who can reach you, and you can block anyone.

Question 13

What are Private Galleries?

Accepted Answer

Albums you intentionally share with selected people. You choose who gets access.

Question 14

What is the Chat Photo Library?

Accepted Answer

Your personal collection of reusable photos that you can send in different conversations. It's separate from Private Galleries.

Question 15

How do group chats work?

Accepted Answer

You can invite people you've mutually liked into a group conversation.

Question 16

How do I report or block someone?

Accepted Answer

Open their profile or your conversation and choose Report or Block. Reports are reviewed by our team.

Question 17

How do I delete my account?

Accepted Answer

You can delete your account from your account settings in the app.

Question 18

Is AFTRHRS available outside South Africa?

Accepted Answer

AFTRHRS is launching in South Africa first, with international expansion planned.

Question 19

Where can I get support?

Accepted Answer

Visit our Contact page to reach the right team.

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